The doorway
In her book entitled “Crossing to Avalon” Dr. Jean Shinoda Bolen describes women who are in transition as symbolically standing under a lintel or doorway. She uses this image to signify that one is not where one was and not yet where one will be. This is often what we feel when we are going through a major change in our lives such as a relationship ending. While this time can be uncertain and frightening it also can be a space for opportunity. It can be a time to listen to ourselves and explore new avenues. These are often experiences that we would not have taken the opportunity to explore when we were in a relationship. This can be a time to stretch and try something new. As you stand under the doorway, not where you were and not yet where you will be, give yourself the gift of seeing and trying new possibilities.